Hear, O Israel: The Lord
is our God, the Lord alone. You shall love the Lord your
God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart. Recite
them to your children and talk about them when you are at home and when you are
away, when you lie down and when you rise. ~Deuteronomy
6.4-7
Family
Closeness
Game:
Blind Draw
Everyone is
given a sheet of paper and a pen. You have three minutes to draw a picture of
something that everyone agrees to...but you must either close your eyes or be
blindfolded or have the light turned out.
Sharing:
- What is the hardest thing about being (your age) years old?
- What is the best thing about being (your age) years old?
- What things don’t boys understand about girls?
- What things don’t girls understand about boys?
Story
With your family
read: Matthew 18.15-20
(for a way of explaining/talking about this
reading with children look at
http://www.sermons4kids.com/dont_get_even.htm)
Questions for Discussion:
- Why do you think it might be wise to point out someone’s sin against you in private first?
- What kinds of sins do you think this instruction might cover?
- Are their things people might do which should immediately be taken to someone in power like a parent or teacher or police officer?
- Why might it be necessary to take someone with you if someone won’t listen to you when you point out their sin?
- How did Jesus treat tax collectors and sinners?
Prayer
and Celebration
Prayers
of Confession
Prayers of confession are a normal part of a
Christian’s prayer life. All of us, including children do things we wish we
hadn’t, or don’t do the things we should. Confession, saying sorry and asking
God for forgiveness is something that parents should model to children. There
are various ways we might engage our children in prayers of confession.
Burning
Prayers
Your family might like to individually write down
things they would like to say sorry for. These prayers might then be placed in
a bowl and burnt as a symbol of God’s forgiveness.
The following words might be used to help children
have a language for this type of prayer:
I got really
angry today. I think I know why, and I
wish I wouldn’t. I feel so out of
control. I feel disappointed. Jesus, I am sorry for any hurt I have caused
today. Help me to be gentle. Help me to love more and more. Help me to love.
Help me to
put aside the things that hurt others, you, and me. I am sorry for . . . . Grant your grace to me, that I might grow
more into who I am, and who you call me to be.
Words from scripture might be used to help children see that God takes
away our sins from us and forgives us.
These could include:
“If you sin, Jesus Christ always does the right thing,
and he will speak to the Father for us. Christ is the sacrifice that takes away
our sins and the sins of all the world’s people.”
(1 John 2:1–2,
CEV)
“How far has the Lord
taken our sins from us? Farther than the distance from east to west!”
(Psalm 103:12,
CEV)
Service
Recently the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge has been all
over the internet and TV with seemingly everyone including celebrities getting
in on the action. This might provide an great opportunity for your family to do
two things.
- Explore creative ways you could raise the profile of a particular charity that you would like to support.
- Talk about why it is good to give to charity in secret. Read Matthew 6.2 - 4
- Discuss how you might get the balance between these two right and why they are both important.
Bonus
Family Activity
Collage
of Dreams
Use
photos, words and pictures from old magazines, glue, sparkles etc to make a
collage of the things your family would like to do with their life. This might
begin by each member making a list of 10 or 100 things that they would like to
do in their life…like skydive or write a book or
learn to ride a bike. Alternatively the collage might be about things your
family might like to do this year together. Put the collage up somewhere
visible to remind you of your dreams and plans.
(This material is based on and draws from earlier Faithful Families emails by Stephen Harrison and Richard Browning: An Unless Ideas Production.)
Unless otherwise noted all material on this blog is copyright Stephen Harrison and Richard Browning
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